the review
I think it would not be done fairly, but let's hope for the best who knows they might realize that HE children have more than what they think. I just took my son off school, but i'm not new to HE, as i educated him for 2 years, then took him to school, from year2 till half of year 5. I did it because he was on the waiting list of 4 schools near me. I complained endlessly to LA, but they just told me to keep writing,or just wait for a free place. They did not care much whether he is having any education.
I know that i have done a huge mistake accepting an offer after 2and a half years, i've been pushed to it by family on the ground of socialization. My son learned that he is worthless, not important,a retard as once told me was called. He was bright, doing year4 maths at year2 (as witness by LEA rep., who I begged to meet), confident and social. The school harmed his self esteem and confidence, he couldn't interact with others as they used to swear, talk dirty, bully even sneak out of school.
He developped a sense of worthlessness, and still does the same maths i taught him over 3 years ago. Now 2 months off he is much happier, we caught up in maths and we are working on building his confidence back.I only took him to school to interact, but in fact it's such an unhealthy environment that I would not want my children part of. I even saw some smoking, horrible. I have 2 degrees, one in finance, speak 4 languages and doing a master, I know what my children need more than anyone, I will with no doubt do a better job.This decision to do something better with our kids life, only makes us good parents, taking a huge responsibility of our children education rather than sending them off to school for others to care for them without caring much if they are doing fine, using school more as a day care.That makes us more of the caring, loving and responsible parents, complete opposite traits of the abusive parents. And we are doing a better job than the state, so that's where the fear of unfairness lies, they need to cover up for their failure, by turning the focus on HEdders.
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17-03-09, 20:13
