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			<title>New to homeschooling looking for support</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 15:38:01 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hi we live about 20 miles north of inverness.  we have just removed our 7 year old daughter from school to begin home education.  me and my partner...</description>
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<div>Hi we live about 20 miles north of inverness.  we have just removed our 7 year old daughter from school to begin home education.  me and my partner are happy with arrangements but other adults in the family are saying that its a bad thing and that it will ruin the girls lives and that we have to put them back into school immediately.  has anyone else had similar problems.  any advice would be gratefully appreciated.</div>


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			<title>Money out of thin air: 12 year old tells it like it is</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 11:21:23 GMT</pubDate>
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12-year old Victoria Grant explains why her homeland, Canada, and most of the world, is in debt....</description>
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<div>This link was sent by a friend - worth a watch.<br />
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<a href="http://12-year old Victoria Grant explains why her homeland, Canada, and most of the world, is in debt. April 27, 2012 at the Public Banking in America Conference, Philadelphia, PA. For more information see publicbankinginstitute.org or moveourmoney.net" target="_blank">12-year old Victoria Grant explains why her homeland, Canada, and most of the world, is in debt.</a> April 27, 2012 at the Public Banking in America Conference, Philadelphia, PA. For more information see <a href="http://www.publicbankinginstitute.org" target="_blank">www.publicbankinginstitute.org</a> or <a href="http://www.moveourmoney.net" target="_blank">www.moveourmoney.net</a>.</div>


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			<title>hair today , gone ......</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 09:27:15 GMT</pubDate>
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<div>.<br />
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Yet again we find out about EU freedom snatching laws only after they are cut and dried <br />
<a href="http://www.birminghammail.net/news/birmingham-news/2012/05/17/hairdressers-cut-up-over-eu-bid-to-ban-high-heels-in-the-workplace-97319-30988426/" target="_blank">http://www.birminghammail.net/news/b...7319-30988426/</a><br />
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&quot;Hair penetrating the feet &quot; :frusty:</div>


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			<title>throwing away the box</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 22:16:45 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hi everyone, I have been browsing this forum for a while and have decided I know feel brave enough to introduce myself :wave:. 
After much...</description>
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<div>Hi everyone, I have been browsing this forum for a while and have decided I know feel brave enough to introduce myself :wave:.<br />
After much soul-searching and researching we have made the desicion to HE our children and it is so liberating.<br />
Our son, M, is still only 21 months old and his brother is due to be born in August, so I guess you could say we're starting early!<br />
We have discussed this with my mum, who was a teacher until a stress-related illness caused her to leave the job. Her inital response was 'Are you mad?'. But after having doen some of her own research and thought about the lifestyle it will allow us to have as a family she has come to the conclusion that it is a good alternative to the small primary school in the village (the same one I attended!). We just need to break it to the in-laws and friends...<br />
We live in Snowdonia, North Wales and are about to move into a small quarryman's cottage with 3 acres of land which we have spent the last few months renovating. We intend to keep animals and have space to grow veg and space to run and play of course! :biggrin1: <br />
M has the option of starting in the local nursery in September, a coupe of hours a morning, 4 mornings a week. I think, with a new baby, it may be good for him to go and have the chance to play with other children while I get a couple of hours with new baby. I am worried though, that in a couple of years he may wonder why his friends are going to school when he isn't. (That's if there are any other children the same age). <br />
We intend to follow an unstructured education (autonomus?) and have been allowing him to develop in this way since birth, so I'm hoping that when they're older it will just be a way of life rather than a noticable 'education'.<br />
I've read a lot of posts from parents who have withdrawn their children from school for many reasons, I welcome any advice, but would love to hear from other parents who have never sent their children to school about their experiences.<br />
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So, hello, I'm so glad I found this site to accompany us on our first wobbly steps of living 'outside the box'. <br />
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			<title>New to home schooling</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 18:44:41 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hi is there any parents in the Hertfordshire area that are Homeschooling.  I have just removed my 15 year old daughter from her schooling. Would be...</description>
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<div>Hi is there any parents in the Hertfordshire area that are Homeschooling.  I have just removed my 15 year old daughter from her schooling. Would be great to meet some other parents and teenagers in the same situation.</div>


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			<title>The girls on the bridge</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 11:44:24 GMT</pubDate>
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Excellent though upsetting articles by Kenneth Roy on the two girls who committed suicide by jumping off the erskine Bridge in 2009. <br />
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Yet again, those in charge of these young people failed them, fatally in this case.</div>


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			<title>hi</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 08:52:01 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>hi new and looking to home educate,my daughter is 12 and has had the hardest first year of high school due to being bullied ,im looking to home...</description>
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<div>hi new and looking to home educate,my daughter is 12 and has had the hardest first year of high school due to being bullied ,im looking to home educate her as the school is giving no support and its breaking my heart seeing her so upset at the thought of going into school every day ,i dont know where to start and would be very grateful for any advice and any info on groups in the renfrewshire area ,thanks in advance</div>


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			<title>Hello from Melton Mowbray</title>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 00:40:38 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Hello,  
 
I'm Beanie I have a son who is two and a half, who we plan on home educating. He does go to a play based nursery two after noons a week,...]]></description>
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<div>Hello, <br />
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I'm Beanie I have a son who is two and a half, who we plan on home educating. He does go to a play based nursery two after noons a week, but its just for fun and having other kids to play with, I'm not hugly confidant with meeting people or going to mum and baby groups.  I was HE'd through most of secondary school, and would not educate my child any other way after experiencing both sides!<br />
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Lovely to meet you all, I would love to meet other families especially ones with young children my son's age.<br />
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Beanie</div>


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			<title>Dealing with Highly Intrusive Parasitic Public Servants</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 19:14:38 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Oh look! A service resister's tongue in cheek alternative to the upcoming  Working with Resistant Parents...]]></description>
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<div>Oh look! A service resister's tongue in cheek alternative to the upcoming  <a href="http://www.communitycareconferences.co.uk/highlyresistantparents2012" target="_blank"><font color="DarkRed">Working with Resistant Parents</font></a> conference, flagged up and critiqued on the Love, Belief and Balls blog in <a href="http://markneary1dotcom1.wordpress.com/2012/05/10/the-new-deadly-sins-resistance-compliance/" target="_blank">this eloquent post</a>.<br />
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<div align="center"><font color="DarkRed"><b>Dealing with Highly Intrusive Parasitic Public Servants</b></font><br />
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<font color="DarkRed"><i>Practical strategies to tackle intrusive threatening and bullying behaviour disguised as &#8216;support&#8217;</i></font> <br />
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<font color="DarkRed">An online conference for concerned parents and children</font></div><br />
Following on from recent high profile cases, attention is focused on the relationship between parasitic public servants and law abiding families whose lives they routinely seek to invade.<br />
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As well as hostility, threatening and aggressive behaviour and routine lying about the law, parents and children face the dangers of <font color="DarkRed"><b>&#8216;disguised support&#8217;</b></font>. Parasitic public servants who appear to be supportive may in fact be manipulating parents and children with clever underhand tactics. But by its very nature, this is hard to spot. How can you identify this practice and how should you be dealing with it?<br />
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In answer to this worrying trend, we are pleased to announce <font color="DarkRed"><b>Dealing with &#8216;Highly Intrusive&#8217; Parasitic Public Servants</b></font>. This practical online conference will equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to identify and tackle lying and manipulative behaviour amongst the parasitic public servants you encounter as you go about your lawful business.<br />
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View the full programme to see how attending this event will enable you to:<br />
<blockquote>&#8226;	Understand the reasons why public servants might be highly intrusive and disruptive to the lives of law abiding families<br />
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&#8226;	Minimise the risk of harm to children by ensuring public servants adhere to the law, even if they have no inkling of what it actually says<br />
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&#8226;	Learn how to spot when you are being deceived by public servants<br />
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&#8226;	Improve your resilience and resistance to state sponsored bullying tactics by public servants through winning case studies<br />
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&#8226;	Ensure your approach to public servants is targeted towards better outcomes for your child<br />
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</blockquote>NEW THIS YEAR: Practical sessions focusing on collaborative working to combat public servants who display arrogance, ignorance and prejudice disguised as &#8216;support&#8217;. Are they just thick as pig shit, or might they be colluding with other abusers of power?<br />
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Benefit from the knowledge of peer reviewed academic research and experience of successful &#8216;service resisters&#8217; who have stood up to intrusive public servants. <font color="DarkRed"><b>Register for free because we aren't rentseekers</b>.</font><br />
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<font color="DarkRed">Why attend?</font><br />
This conference is essential for all parents who are anxious to safeguard and protect children from state sponsored abuse. It is an unmissable opportunity to join your peers from across the country and hear from leading experts in the field of working with intrusive and bullying public servants. Together they will equip you with the knowledge and tools you require to ensure you are able to effectively manage your relationships with parasitic pen pushers and tick box tyrants in order to improve long term outcomes for your children.<br />
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See y'all there?</div>


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			<dc:creator>Ali P</dc:creator>
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			<title>all tips and knowledge please!</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 18:29:10 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>hi all,  
 
its pretty much definite that i will be HE my 11 year old from september, there are many reasons and i think after all the issues we are...</description>
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<div>hi all, <br />
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its pretty much definite that i will be HE my 11 year old from september, there are many reasons and i think after all the issues we are having the world is telling me that he should not be at that school! We are quite excited! although seriously nervous so im reading/asking for as much info as possible!<br />
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i have read (from a link on here) that you just have to write to the school (i have to find out which school as he will be going up to secondary in september) and tell them and thats that, you dont have to tell anyone else but on our local council site it says you MUST tell the LA and you HAVE to have a meeting and tell them all your plans to make sure he will be educated well, also if you dont meet their criteria then you can get in trouble! <br />
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what are the laws?? this is the link to our LA and everything it says <a href="http://www.buckscc.gov.uk/assets/content/bcc/docs/schools/home_education/EHE_guidelines_booklet.pdf" target="_blank">http://www.buckscc.gov.uk/assets/con...es_booklet.pdf</a> i cant copy and paste it all but i would be so grateful if anyone could tell me if i HAVE to do all these things? i wouldnt even know where to start with a plan! im just trying to get my head round it all! <br />
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also what advice would you give to a newbie like me? he is my middle child, we think he may have dyspraxia, he is the most loving, kind sweet child ever and i wont have him in a school that isnt perfect, hence me HE him. my eldest is flourishing at the Grammar school and will be staying there, i have a 13 month old who is pretty much attached to me, still feeding her you see! LOL! <br />
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any and all advice welcome, i dont know ANYONE who has HE and there is no local groups (i have looked and looked)<br />
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many thanks for reading that SA!</div>


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			<dc:creator>purple</dc:creator>
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			<title>Two programmes of interest tonight</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 09:28:11 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Two interesting programmes are on the telly tonight (and no doubt available via catch up later). 
 
56 Up...</description>
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<div>Two interesting programmes are on the telly tonight (and no doubt available via catch up later).<br />
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<a href="http://www.tvguide.co.uk/detail.asp?id=123543194" target="_blank">56 Up</a>, ITV, 8pm<br />
Being born in the same year as these participants, I have followed this documentary series since I was 14. <br />
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<a href="http://www.tvguide.co.uk/detail.asp?id=123543591" target="_blank">Watching the detectives</a>, Channel, 4 9pm <br />
This Dispatches sting was discussed on brekkie telly and we can all say <a href="http://www.home-education.biz/forum/general-discussion/583-the-government-data-loss-thread.html" target="_blank">we told you so</a> to those who have blind faith in the security of databases (especially NHS medical records) and those who have access to the personal sensitive data held on them.</div>


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			<dc:creator>Ali P</dc:creator>
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			<title>Can an internet connection be all you need to get an Ivy League education?</title>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 09:06:15 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[Who are the professionals? Teachers or HE'ers?]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 23:09:39 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>http://www.guardian.co.uk/education/2012/may/12/schools-face-talent-drain 
 
 
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				Labour intends to draw lessons from the system in Japan, a country that is regularly among the top world rankings for reading and numeracy, where the position of teacher is held in significantly higher esteem and newly qualified teachers can wait up to a decade to get a placement, such is the competition. The system is also peculiar for the amount of time that teachers are given to do research and develop their skills and lessons together
			
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&quot;Extreme professionalism&quot; a necessity?<br />
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			<title><![CDATA[Cameron's £100 parenting class Boots vouchers to help tackle child yobbery]]></title>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 16:38:49 GMT</pubDate>
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				The Prime Minister hopes the scheme will combat the breakdown in family discipline blamed for last year’s riots – and that using a High Street store to distribute the vouchers will end the stigma attached to parenting lessons.<br />
Currently, the courts can impose such classes on irresponsible parents, but Ministers hope this scheme will make them ‘as normal and pleasant as going to a cookery or line-dancing class’.<br />
Under the scheme, to be launched in three test areas, mothers and fathers of under-fives will each be eligible for £100 vouchers, which they can use to buy lessons offered by independent organisations such as the National Childbirth Trust, netmums.com and Parentgym, the company run by Mr Cameron’s friend and former adviser, Octavius Black.<br />
Lessons will cover discipline, diet, exercise, coping with family rows, good manners, bullying, reading bedtime stories and generally preparing children for school.
			
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			<title><![CDATA["Are males the new Second Sex?"]]></title>
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				They work longer hours, face economic insecurity and suffer worse health. Now their feckless ways are lampooned in the media. A controversial new book argues that men increasingly face a prejudice that dare not speak its name
			
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				You might not have realised it, but men are being oppressed. In many walks of life, they are routinely discriminated against in ways women are not. So unrecognised is this phenomenon that the mere mention of it will appear laughable to some.<br />
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That, at least, is the premise of a book by a South African philosophy professor which claims that sexism against men is a widespread yet unspoken malaise. In The Second Sexism, shortly to be published in the UK, David Benatar, head of the philosophy department at Cape Town University, argues that &quot;more boys drop out of school, fewer men earn degrees, more men die younger, more are incarcerated&quot; and that the issue is so under-researched it has become the prejudice that dare not speak its name.<br />
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&quot;It's a neglected form of sexism,&quot; Benatar says in a telephone interview. &quot;It's true that in the developed world the majority of economic and political roles are occupied by males. But if you look at the bottom – for example, the prison population, the homeless population, or the number of people dropping out of school – that is overwhelmingly male. You tend to find more men at the very top but also at the very bottom.&quot;<br />
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The American men's rights author Warren Farrell calls it &quot;the glass cellar&quot;. There might be a glass ceiling for women, Farrell once told the Observer, but &quot;of the 25 professions ranked lowest [in the US], 24 of them are 85-100% male. That's things like roofer, welder, garbage collector, sewer maintenance – jobs with very little security, little pay and few people want them.&quot;<br />
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Do Benatar and Farrell have a point? A handful of statistics seems to bear out their thesis. Not only are men more likely to be conscripted into military service, to be the victims of violence, and to lose custody of their children in the event of a divorce, but tests conducted in 2009 by the programme for international student assessment, carried out by the OECD thinktank, showed that boys lag a year behind girls at reading in every industrialised country. They work longer hours, too: in 2010 the Office for National Statistics found that men in the UK work an average of 39 hours a week, compared with 34 for women. Healthwise, men develop heart disease 10 years earlier than women, on average, and young men are three times more likely to commit suicide.<br />
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&quot;The biggest challenge is … tackling the male tendency to suffer in silence,&quot; says Tim Samuels, presenter of Radio 5's Men's Hour. &quot;We're getting better at admitting to our weaknesses or seeking help, but there's still such a long way to go.&quot;<br />
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Men are also increasingly the butt of jokes. In a recent article for Grazia magazine, one male writer took exception to comedian Jo Brand claiming that her favourite man was &quot;a dead one&quot; and an advertisement for oven cleaner with the tagline: &quot;So easy, even a man can do it.&quot; In a Guardian article on Friday, it was pointed out that the stereotyped image of a man incapable of growing up has become a staple of US film comedies – the most recent example being Jeff, Who Lives at Home, starring Jason Segel as a man still living with his long-suffering mother who lets him smoke weed in her basement.<br />
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Would the same humour be levelled at women? Benatar thinks not. &quot;It's very hard to quantify the level of disadvantage,&quot; he says. &quot;But one form of discrimination that is universal is the greater tolerance of violence against males. The victims of murder and severe assault are disproportionately male. There have been lab experiments with both men and women where it has been shown that we have fewer inhibitions inflicting violence against men than women.&quot;<br />
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He laughs when asked how the women in his life have responded to The Second Sexism. &quot;They seem to be positive,&quot; he says. &quot;Perhaps I just mix with people who are more reasonable.&quot;<br />
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In her 2008 book The Sexual Paradox, the psychologist and journalist Susan Pinker covered some of the same territory, also highlighting the anti-male bias in education and preventative medicine. &quot;The majority of children with developmental delays, behavioural and learning problems are male,&quot; she says. &quot;For the most part, our school system fails them. Many end up dropping out. Our mental health system, too, is focused on helping those who seek out assistance. That's not the forte of most men.<br />
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&quot;I think the five-to-six-year gap between women's and men's lifespans could be shortened if more work was done to address male risk-taking and stress-related disease – which kill so many more men than women in their prime. The recent spate of male suicides during the financial crisis is a good example of the way male suffering is often invisible.&quot;<br />
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Another area of concern, according to Duncan Fisher, co-founder of the UK's Fatherhood Institute, is the &quot;gratuitous exclusion&quot; of men from child-rearing: midwifery services are described as &quot;one-to-one care&quot; and whereas employers frequently allow women flexible working hours if they are mothers, the same option is rarely offered to men in similar situations. &quot;It can be so alienating,&quot; says Fisher. &quot;Segregation, in a way, has got worse even though, under the radar, the role of fathers is actually increasing all the time. With the recession, there's much more sharing of childcare, but there's a growing gap between the reality and the rhetoric. A lot of early years services are still just 'mothers' groups', which is worrying because it leaves vulnerable men to sort out their own narrative. They don't believe they exist. They stay silent.&quot;<br />
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There are those, however, who take exception to the notion that men are a downtrodden minority, unable to speak out for fear of ridicule or repression. &quot;It's an idea that's made more comebacks than Madonna,&quot; says Julie Bindel, the feminist writer and political activist. &quot;It's total and utter bullshit. There are areas where men are paying the price that male supremacy gives them – there's absolutely no doubt about that.<br />
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&quot;My dad, a working-class man from the north-east, had an absolutely horrendous job in a steel mill and he came home bad-tempered, knackered and underpaid. What he could do was come home and dominate – not in a physical way – but he could be the boss over his wife and children, he could go and sink 10 pints in the pub.<br />
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&quot;The reality is that the public domain belongs entirely to men and the disadvantages they face are just the price they pay. It's tough cheese. Masculinity is just learned behaviour in the same way that femininity is. Ultimately, if we dismantle the patriarchy, that would end up being better for men, too.&quot;<br />
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&quot;You can see the ways that patriarchy can be hard on men who don't fit the mould,&quot; concedes Natasha Walter, the author of Living Dolls: The Return of Sexism and The New Feminism. &quot;There is more debate to be had about the sacrifices that men make, but obviously I wouldn't go so far as to say that shows women hold all the cards. You have to look at the structural inequality. Sexism against men doesn't exist in the same way because of the way the system is balanced.&quot;<br />
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Benatar believes this is a false distinction – and that our ignorance of the &quot;second sexism&quot; stems from what he terms &quot;partisan feminists&quot;, who are interested only in the advancement of women's rights, rather than true equality and co-operation between the sexes. &quot;It is true that women occupy fewer of the highest and most powerful positions,&quot; he writes, &quot;but this also does not show that women are in general worse off. To make the claim that women are worse off, one must compare all women with all men, rather than only the most successful women with the most successful men. Otherwise, one could as easily compare the least successful men with the least successful women and one would then find that men are worse off.&quot;<br />
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If we measured &quot;success&quot; differently, taking into account a sense of broader wellbeing, gained from family relationships and a flexible work-life balance, would men be losing out? Pinker believes so. &quot;'Global power' as measured by bean-counting the number of male chief executive officers in industry, for example, is not the only value in a just society,&quot; she says. &quot;Health, happiness, the richness of one's human relationships, job satisfaction and how long one lives are also important values. Men are lagging behind women in all those areas.&quot;<br />
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Still, there are some men who remain relatively untroubled by this state of affairs. Tim Samuels, for one, readily concedes that we tolerate jokes about men that wouldn't be made about women or ethnic minorities &quot;because men haven't faced hundreds of years of persecution&quot;.<br />
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&quot;We shouldn't lose our sense of humour over this,&quot; says Samuels. &quot;A few gags on Loose Women aren't going to signal the demise of mankind.&quot;<br />
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BOOKS ABOUT BELEAGUERED MEN<br />
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Iron John: A Book About Men, 1990<br />
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The American poet Robert Bly offered a new vision of what it is to be a man. He addressed the effects of remote fathers and mourned the disappearance of male initiation rites in western culture. Finding meaning in ancient stories and legends, Bly used the Grimm fairytale Iron John, in which the narrator guides a young man through eight stages of male growth.<br />
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The War Against Boys, 2001<br />
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Christina Hoff Sommers claimed that boys were ignored by conventional wisdom that focused on solving girls' problems and warned that boys risked becoming the &quot;second sex&quot; if this wasn't addressed.<br />
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Fire in the Belly: On Being a Man, 2006<br />
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Sam Keen argued that men must define their identities by severing themselves from women as approval-giving mother figures and as the ancient goddess who continues to exert power within the male psyche's hidden recesses. Going beyond the modern rites of manhood – alienating work, war, performance-oriented sex – the new male &quot;psychonaut&quot; brings forth meaning by undertaking &quot;a spiritual journey into the self&quot;.
			
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