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Old 14-05-12, 19:14
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Default Dealing with Highly Intrusive Parasitic Public Servants

Oh look! A service resister's tongue in cheek alternative to the upcoming Working with Resistant Parents conference, flagged up and critiqued on the Love, Belief and Balls blog in this eloquent post.


Dealing with Highly Intrusive Parasitic Public Servants

Practical strategies to tackle intrusive threatening and bullying behaviour disguised as ‘support’

An online conference for concerned parents and children

Following on from recent high profile cases, attention is focused on the relationship between parasitic public servants and law abiding families whose lives they routinely seek to invade.

As well as hostility, threatening and aggressive behaviour and routine lying about the law, parents and children face the dangers of ‘disguised support’. Parasitic public servants who appear to be supportive may in fact be manipulating parents and children with clever underhand tactics. But by its very nature, this is hard to spot. How can you identify this practice and how should you be dealing with it?

In answer to this worrying trend, we are pleased to announce Dealing with ‘Highly Intrusive’ Parasitic Public Servants. This practical online conference will equip you with the knowledge and tools you need to identify and tackle lying and manipulative behaviour amongst the parasitic public servants you encounter as you go about your lawful business.

View the full programme to see how attending this event will enable you to:
• Understand the reasons why public servants might be highly intrusive and disruptive to the lives of law abiding families

• Minimise the risk of harm to children by ensuring public servants adhere to the law, even if they have no inkling of what it actually says

• Learn how to spot when you are being deceived by public servants

• Improve your resilience and resistance to state sponsored bullying tactics by public servants through winning case studies

• Ensure your approach to public servants is targeted towards better outcomes for your child

• Plus much more!
NEW THIS YEAR: Practical sessions focusing on collaborative working to combat public servants who display arrogance, ignorance and prejudice disguised as ‘support’. Are they just thick as pig shit, or might they be colluding with other abusers of power?

Benefit from the knowledge of peer reviewed academic research and experience of successful ‘service resisters’ who have stood up to intrusive public servants. Register for free because we aren't rentseekers.

Why attend?
This conference is essential for all parents who are anxious to safeguard and protect children from state sponsored abuse. It is an unmissable opportunity to join your peers from across the country and hear from leading experts in the field of working with intrusive and bullying public servants. Together they will equip you with the knowledge and tools you require to ensure you are able to effectively manage your relationships with parasitic pen pushers and tick box tyrants in order to improve long term outcomes for your children.

See y'all there?
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This conference needs selling to a wider audience

I wonder how far it would get
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We don't need to sell it, it's free! 29/05/12 online on this thread. We have a rough agenda.

Sign up here: 'Dealing with Highly Intrusive Parasitic Public Servants'

Thought you'd be the ideal keynote 'poster', Sheila.

Any other 'experts' willing to address the salient issues and post them on this thread on the day?
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We could do it on Skype?
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I will be promoting signs for doors /Windows -
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If you do not have my written invitation to visit then please leave and do not waste my time and money .
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That site sounds like the Gestapo training camp!
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Contributions are invited for 'keynote addresses' under the main headings and shorter comments for the bulleted sections.

Dealing with Highly Intrusive Parasitic Public Servants

Practical strategies to tackle intrusive threatening and bullying behaviour disguised as ‘support’

A conference for concerned parents and children
Online at Home Education Forums on 29/05/12


Pre-registration will be required to post on the forum discussions but comments are also welcome on the Facebook event page.

Please note that this conference, while aiming to give voice to alternative views to government's adopted-without-evidence policy of universal early intervention and forced delivery of compulsory 'services', acknowledges the necessity for statutory intervention in a minority of cases where there is actual, or properly risk-assessed evidence of the likelihood of, significant harm being caused to another person.

AGENDA (but we’ll go with the flow)


Opening remarks

“Stopping them in their tracks”: Building barriers to cope with overly intrusive public servants

• Recognising and overcoming the many reasons public servants have for making ultra vires demands
• Identifying the paths parents can take to deal with hostility and threats while maintaining minimal civil communication with intrusive public servants

Managing hostile situations

• Dealing with aggressive and intimidating public servants
• Guaranteeing personal safety in your home setting
• Ensuring that motivation is not lost as a result of threatening encounters

Identifying indicators of disguised support and taking appropriate action to improve outcomes for your child

• Lessons to be learned from serious case reviews (SCRs)and scapegoating
• Moving beyond ‘box ticking’ to provide context to your dealings with public servants
• Ensuring ‘parental optimism’, giving public servants the ‘benefit of the doubt’ and increased workloads in responding to enquiries do not interfere with your judgement on what is in the best interests of your child
• The difficulties of assessing levels of risk to your family, particularly in cases of doorstepping and harassment. When enough is enough?
• Listen to your child and analyse the evidence

Understanding the psychology of manipulative public servants to avoid inadvertently colluding with deception

• How some public servants mislead parents in telephone and face to face communications through passive, covert manipulation
• Methods to detect deceptive and ‘grooming’ behaviour amongst public servants
• How independent networks and communities of interest can help parents to ascertain when they have been duped

Analysing Risk in Child Protection from Public Servants

• Introducing a tried and tested model for risk assessment in these cases (a well known three letter acronym)
• Identifying clear pathways to forming judgements and making decisions in the best interests of your child
• Ensuring that risk factors associated with intrusive and inappropriate behaviours like doorstepping are clearly identified and integral to your assessment

Identifying and managing risk

• Assessing risk and decision making to ensure the safety and wellbeing of your child
• The use of a virtual world in which parents and young people can safely reflect on the risks, challenges and complexities faced when 'judgement calls' have to be made
• Locating the virtual world within a training tool that draws on game playing (Laming Lemmings), spoof conferences and satire to help parentsunderstand and manage situations where public servants are intrusive, pushy, deceptive or threatening

Public servants with statist mentality and/or authoritarian obsessive disorder

• Recognising where obstructive or deceitful behaviour may be a result of a public servant’s statist mentality and/or authoritarian obsession disorder
• Protecting the rights of children and affirming the presumption that parents (and their nominated carers) will act in their children’s best interests regardless of their socio-economic circumstances or lifestyle choices
• Ensuring adults with statist mentality and/or authoritarian obsessive disorder are empowered to serve as public servants without violating the human rights of others
• Professional ‘grooming’ by public servants
• Community networking - preventing or resolving tension between families and public servants with state sponsored disorders

Accepting public servants’ cultural differences within the framework of the law: Dilemmas outlined and explored

• Understanding how best to relate to public servants from an alien predominantly statist culture
• Recognising where value judgements can get in the way of your ability to accurately assess public servants’ motives and agendae
• Avoiding judging public servants based on your own cultural norms and assumptions
• Knowing when it is appropriate for public servants to intervene in specific situations, and where statutory intervention should be respected

Best practice case study

This session will follow a real-life case study where parents have encountered intrusive and manipulative public servants, but through the application of best practice and effective networking, communities have successfully resolved the issues and improved outcomes for the children concerned. The studies will cover:

• The nature of the public servants’ lack of adherence to the law and prejudiced practice
• How relevant communities worked together to counter the intrusive and threatening behaviour
• What the outcomes were for the children and families concerned
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We may get some international delegates

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I have started this thread for use on the day of the conference and will close this one tomorrow so that the contributions can be kept there (and on the Facebook event page for non HEF members).

Advance submissions are also welcome and we have a few of these already which may not all manage to be posted on the forum on the day but will be included in the final document.
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